Of trust and other things....

Just last Sunday,I happened to watch 'Shaadi ke Side/Effects' and trust me,it was one non-boring movie and I'm sure the couples,married or unmarried could relate to it well.The movie has its opening with a very nice song wherein our very own desi diva Vidya Balan,wearing a backless dress is grabbing a drink,feeling the music and gyrating to it with her hair let open.And,enter Farhan Akhtar,the new SRK on the block! He wears a black body hugging shirt for this song sequence and trust me,he looks dapper in that! This was their 'role play' (we get to know this when Farhan mentions to the hotel authorities when he was caught on the CCTV with his reel wife Vidya) which apparently keeps the spark glowing in the relationship! Everything is shown to be all fun and games until Vidya discovers she is pregnant and decides to keep the baby on Farhan's say ( he actually goes into the operation theater where Vidya was getting her abortion done!).

 Farhan's responsibilties double up along with his wife as he turns a father to a baby girl. The routine of putting the baby to sleep,attending to her needs ,trying to gauge her various types of cries when she used to feel cold,hot and hungry and the like takes a toll on him mentally and he decides to chuck everything and get back to his singleton life where he used to once party with his friends and do things according to his whims and caprices. So he used to go out and stay at a posh hotel (this suggestion is given to him by Vidya's rich-beyond-words brother-in-law,not only this guy goes out for days but also he has found uber ecstasy in the companionship of another female),far from his family and get back to them after days. He starts sharing a room with Vir Das later since he couldn't afford hotel bills all thanks to his struggling profession.One day,he goes straight up to Vidya and confesses about it which leaves her shattered to the core and she throws him out of the house. But because of some change at heart,Vidya takes him in and tells him she is pregnant again to which he responds happily. The happiness dies out soon after she tells him it isn't his but his neighbour's. Farhan is unable to bear the fact and leaves with his daughter. No sooner he does this than he realizes that the girl cannot live without her mother,hence,gathering courage,he goes back home and tells his wife that they should be together for their daughter's sake. Vidya's heart melts on learning this and she admits she had lied about the pregnancy part.She had put him on a test to check whether she should forgive him for whatever pain he had caused to her. He proved his love was undying for her even after learning the false story. And there ends a '....happily ever after!' saga!

                            For us,the thing to learn from this story is trust! Trust is a very indispensable part of a relationship.Without trust,a relationship holds no meaning at all.Along with trust is honesty.If there is nothing or neither of the two,there is no respect for each other and it is futile to be with that person who doesn't know what trust and honesty are.Trust once gone takes years to build again.Relationship is made up of two people,trust,honesty and happiness! No rule in the world could be as simple as this. Since,the world we live in today is a 'fast' one,there is nothing such as a 'serious' relationship left anywhere,people do not realize the meaning of those two powerful words.

                       

   There's no truth behind someone saying that getting in a relationship is the worst you could possibly do to yourself. It is a pure action of love where two people unite and share that feeling with each other. Also,nobody loses any of their independence towards their freedom,as contradictory as it sounds to the movies we watch these days where sex is the ultimate panacea to everyone in the Universe.

                   

  As i write about this,I recollect the Imran Khan starrer 'I hate luv storys' which was as pathetic as the title given to the movie.One good thing shown in the same is how a flirtatious and non-believer in marriages,Imran,suddenly falls in love with his senior and starts holding the institution of marriage very true.This movie should have been a wake up call for all of those who have failed to perceive the idea of a being in a relationship as prudent.

                   

 It's no herculean task to be in love with someone,what it takes is a little bit of adjustment which you eventually love to make and make your partner happy.Also,one golden rule to be followed is never to keep expectations from your partner since it mars the beauty of the relationship.Learn to gladly accept whatever your partner gives you.This betters the bond between two people and they trust each other even deeper.Just stay dedicated to that one person in your life,the one you know is the most beautiful creation of God,hold that person on the highest pedestal and see how beautiful it is to be in a relationship!